WinIn A Family Court Divorce
This website is dedicated to my daughter who was stolen away by her mother from me, her family, her extended family, relatives, all friends and neighbours. Essentially the mother Dolores Alice Dukes is attempting to erase her past taking our daughter against my daughter's will AND best interest. This is a documentation of Extreme Parental Alienation in The Family Court System intended as a reference educating all to the perils of The Family Court System.
This page is incomplete but with full intentions to host my entire divorce in sequence following this design.
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@TMDILH is hosting, at his own expense, all of this divorce in The Family Court information as a rare honest and heavily evidenced divorce resource especially valuable for fathers.
Catalogued by date with all the information for each section stored behind the large Pink Titles for that date, in an attempt at keeping the vast network of information within this website understandable, hopefully with the easy to follow timeline below.
The pink coloured commentary is my own, offering my personal opinion on the matter.
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When my parental right to be a father to my daughter was taken away, my love for didn't stop but I had no communication or contact with my daughter, so I started designing websites to showcase what exactly happened and why did I lose my daughter? I must be a bad person. I'm not. I can prove it. The mother however, is a very bad parent and has clearly put our daughter through so much and obviously in Contempt of a Court Order, all documented here.
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This design I believe is the best way for anyone who's curious to follow along as I endure the endless hardships of The Family Courts. Soon I will offer much more than what is here.
Some sections are not completed but attached to show what will be there, such as the bottom of the sections having the money and emotional and mental price I was paying, those will be filled in eventually and an example of my attempt to document everything down to the emotional toll each thing took on me.
For quick access and page navigation, the dates and articles are listed to the right here. I'm not nearly finished with this, and this only goes to December of 2005 and I will build the timeline to the present, keeping everyone completely informed of all the progress, or lack of.
This blue coloured commentary is @TMDILH comparing The Family Court divorce compared with that of Mandatory Mediation, where we Abolish Family Court and implement which Mediation which enforces Shared Parenting, safe and immediate councelling to legally navigate both parents through the entire process.
I imagined retiring here on almost an acre of land that was simply ideal for entertaining and raising children. Being on a dead end street, we could park 20 cars easily so we had some epic parties here, plus it was zoned Business/Residential so I had aspirations of earning a six-figure income from my home, AND it was located in one of the best schools zones in the area. This century home was bought and paid for in Sept. 2003, before my 40th birthday, and we only owed a small mortgage for renovations and there were many, including 2 new bathrooms, one of which was in the garage.
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After being together for 20 years, the handwriten letter from my wife, the mother of our daughter, who took the time to plan this out and calmly pack up merely a few things and leave me this note on April 18, 2005 and taking our daughter to being my Parental Alienation.
"I am not happy and I don't think our relationship is healthy."
The mother Dolores Alice Dukes
Noteworthy is the lack of fear, no noted violence nor any mention of any bad parenting, all of which would manifest soon though.
"an example must be made for child, and I'm concerned she is not getting a good one."
The mother Dolores Alice Dukes
I knew my wife was
unhappy as we had talked about it openly. I never knew she'd take her unhappiness to the depths that she has.
"Child is safe and I'm not telling herbadthings about her dad."
The mother Dolores Alice Dukes
And as a fact, despite her logic, I gave the mother everything she wanted in our divorce, eventually even offering to not being our child's life because that's what the mother ultimately wanted, and she is STILL unhappy.
winnersin Family Court lose.
I knew my wife and partner of 2 decades was unhappy, ever since our daughter was born. It was immediate and permanent.
Dispite the proposed reasoning being about what's best for our daughter, the mother purposely keeps her loving father away from her when she needed her dad the most, and I wouldn't see my daughter for weeks later.
The fact that this letter indicates no fear of me is very important and establishes my credibility right from the start. I have no history of violence or Criminal Record, but regardless, the mother's opinion of me will suit her needs and vilifying me justifying her need to exact revenge on not just me, but her entire past. No one has any contact or communication with my daughter not even the mother's own family, relatives or friends. The mother is attempting to erase her past and take our daughter, against my daughter's will, with her.
This is where I'll compare where I'm at in Family Court compared to Mandatory Mediation.
Describing this time period seems impossible to capture but being sucked into a vacuum is about the only analogy that seems fit, because for those ten days awaiting that first Family Court date, everything and nothing happened all at the same time one voiding out the other, a form of signal cancelation like in sound they call it phase cancellation where two recorded sources of the same source can cancel each other out on playback, erasing things that that are there. It felt like that.
"The Respondent, Mike Dad is restrained from molesting, annoying, or harassing the Applicant Dolores Dukes and the child."
Madame Justice Rogers
At the time this was happening to me, I could NOT understand why my partner of 2 decades was immediately treating me so vile, until I saw that the mother was accompanied by a Denise House Support Worker, a Woman's Shelter who advise women to place Restaining Orders publically, and endorse the entitlement of not having to Co-Parent while offering many divisive tactics to
win in Family Court. Since it's essentially Moms vs. Dads they counsel women how to manipulate the system, ruining lives and stealing parents away from children while doing so.
I'd never stepped foot in a courtroom before and the initiation was staggering. I had NO IDEA what I was in for.
I had NEVER gone a day without being with my daughter and I'm expected to just wait 10 days, it was maddening.
There was no need for the mother to have done it this way except to personally hurt me and end my daughter's relationship with me. There are absolutely NO parenting concerns as I've been thoroughly investigated by CAS, Police and the OCL, and my Final Order still says I'm to get access every other weekend.
This is also doing to stay in the major list altough it may go about the footer.