Extreme Parental Alienation

Losing The Human Right To Parent

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Over 5000 Days Being Denied The Right To Parent My Child

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Calculated from April 18 2005, the start of my daughter's Parental Aliention from her father, family, extended family, friends, neighbours, etc. by her mother Dolores Alice Dukes AKA Alice Dukes

@TMDILH Family Slideshow

TMDILH daughter, dog and dad in group hug 2003 Los Angeles

@TMDILH dad with our bestest dog and daughter in a group hug at Los Angeles home basement 2003.

TMDILH los angeles girl drinking water 2003

@TMDILH Los Angeles home with 3 year old in her normal daily attire for the weather.

TMDILH daughter's first Canadian fall at matrimonial home

@TMDILH Los Angeles 4 year old in her first Canadian fall at matrimonial home and very curious about it.

TMDILH big family portrait at christmas including my mother, aunt, half-sister, little sister and famous neice with the mother.

@TMDILH amazing family portrait in matrimonial home with daughter sitting on dad's lap.

TMDILH daughter with Aunt Katie in Rudolf Noses

@TMDILH daughter with her Aunt Katie at Christmas time with rudolf noses on.

TMDILH daughter with new frog friend at new house 2004

@TMDILH daughter staring at her frog friend at new home in Canada August 2004.

TMDILH first christmas for @TMDILH daugther in Canada

@TMDILH 4 year old daughter with dad in first Canadian Christmas Tree chopping her hand on her dads, helping.

TMDILH daughter's birthday present to her dad 2004

@TMDILH daughter's birthday present on dad's birthday.

TMDILH 4 year old daughter laying on the floor of the matrimonial home smiling at dad taking pictures again, 2004

@TMDILH 4 year old daughter laying on matrimonial home floor with a smile for her dad, always with the camera 2004.

TMDILH daughter's birth with dad handing baby to mother in a Pasadena Hospital California 2000

@TMDILH daughter's birth with dad handing baby to mother in California 2000.

TMDILH daughter and dad exploring Toronto at at TTC station.

@TMDILH with daughter at TTC Station in our adventures. .

TMDILH daughter with dad's girlfriend exploring downtown Toronto with dad.

@TMDILH fire escape portrait of dad, daughter and girlfriend all together in the beaches of Toronto.

TMDILH daughter and dad at friend's family event having a blast.

@TMDILH daughter and dad at friends family event having a blast.

TMDILH daughter showing her playground skills upside down with dad late in the day

@TMDILH daughter showing her upside down skills on playground with dad late in the day.

TMDILH Los Angeles daughter arrives in Canada.

@TMDILH daughter arrives in Canada from Los Angeles.

TMDILH tired daughter in Utah from Los Angeles to Canada.

@TMDILH tired daughter in Utah from Los Angeles to Canada .

TMDILH daughter, dad and dog at our last Christmas in Los Angeles.

@TMDILH daughter, dog and dad our last Christmas time in Los Angeles.

TMDILH daughter with Los Angeles childhood friend who is the same age but not same size.

@TMDILH daughter with childhood Los Angeles friend who is the same age but not same size.

TMDILH daughter in RV Childseat being silly putting Crayola Crayons up her nose.

@TMDILH daughter in RV childseat being silly with Crayola Crayons in her nose.

TMDILH family lakeside portrait with daughter hugging dad.

@TMDILH family lakeside portrait camping with daughter hugging dad.

TMDILH daughter at local swimming pool we'd often use on our weekends together.

@TMDILH daughter at local swimming pool with dad we'd use on our weekends together.

TMDILH daughter officially taller than grandma at the age of seven.

@TMDILH daughter officially taller than grandma at the age of seven.

TMDILH daughter at outdoor skating rink with big smile and rosy cheeks.

@TMDILH daughter at outdoor skating rink taking a break with big smile and very rosy cheeks.

TMDILH zombie dad kissing zombie kid at her request while having our make-up done for a movie.

@TMDILH zombie dad kissing zombie kid while having out make-up done, at her request.

TMDILH daughter in winter playground with dad touring around together.

@TMDILH daughter in winter playground with dad touring around together.

You can see the fireworks in the eyers of TMDILH daughter mesmerized by Toronto Festival of Lights display with dad and his girlfriend.

You can see the fireworks in the eyes of @TMDILH daughter mesmerized by Toronto Festival of Lights with dad and girlfriend.

TMDILH daughter face and hand painting she can get away with doing with her dad.

@TMDILH daughter insisting I take a photo of the things she can get away with doing with her dad. lol

TMDILH daughter swimming in outdoor private pool with big smile.

@TMDILH daughter swimming outdoors in private swimming pool with big smile.

TMDILH daughter with dad's girlfriend exploring downtown Toronto together.

@TMDILH daughter with dad's girlfriend exploring Toronto together.

TMDILH daughter making mud cakes, far from being allowed to do by her mother.

@TMDILH daughter making mud cakes, far from allowed by her mother.

TMDILH daughter and dad laughing after near tragic tobogganning experience.

@TMDILH dad and daughter laughing our asses off tobogganing at night after scary but exciting experience.

TMDILH daughter showing love to her dad in a beachh selfie.

@TMDILH daughter showing love to her dad in a beach selfie.

TMDILH daughter at Cedar Park playground swinging.

@TMDILH daughter at Cedar Park playground swinging having a blast with concerned onlookers questioning me taking pictures.

TMDILH daughter in outdoor rink public skate enjoying her winter activities.

@TMDILH daughter in outdoor rink public skate with dad enjoying winter activities.

TMDILH family portrait at the river with todler having a blast

@TMDILH family at the river portrait when daughter was a todler having a blast.

TMDILH daughter in Los Angeles hils 4X4ing in a restored '71 International Scout II

@TMDILH Los Angeles 4x4ing in the hills with daughter hanging out of my very rare '71 International Scout II in mint condition.

TMDILH dancing with todler daughter at my sister's wedding in Vancouver

@TMDILH dad and his todler daughter dancing at my sister's wedding in Vancouver.

TMDILH Family Court appearance with my mother, Dolores' mother and neice all supporting @TMDILH getting better Child Access.

@TMDILH Family Court appearance with my mother, Dolores' mother Gogo and neice Kate with me supporting my Child Access.

TMDILH outdoors at Los Angeles river for family nature time and refreshment from the heat.

@TMDILH outdoor at Los Angeles creek for family nature time.

TMDILH big matrimonial home backyard kids parties in the summer.

@TMDILH big family parties in the large backyard at matrimonial home.

TMDILH family in party hats at birthday party

@TMDILH family in party hats at a birthday party.

TMDILH dad feeding young daughter in our Los Angeles home.

@TMDILH dad feeding young daughter in Las Angeles home kitchen.

TMDILH daughter with her mother and her glaring eyes on Los Angeles home porch.

@TMDILH daughter with her mother and her glaring eyes on Los Angeles home porch.

TMDILH winter family portrait outside on matrimonial home's back porch.

@TMDILH winter family portrait at matrimonial homes back porch.

TMDILH daughter exhausted sleeping and hugging her teddy bear named after her dad.

@TMDILH daughter exhausted hugging her teddy bear named after me.

TMDILH daughter at summer camp event with camp friend,

@TMDILH daughter at summer camp event pic with camp friend.

TMDILH daughter with summer camp tent pal

@TMDILH daughter with summer camp tent pal.

TMDILH daughter helping in the kitchen shreading cheeze for nachos

@TMDILH daughter helping in the kitchen shreading cheeze for nachos.

TMDILH daughter and dad's girlfriend doing art together making Christmas cards.

@TMDILH daughter, dad and dad's girlfriend together doing art making Christmas cards.

TMDILH dad and kid at the playground selfie.

@TMDILH dad and kid selfie having great time at playground.

TMDILH daughter offering a blue art heart while blowing kisses to dad for the camera

@TMDILH daughter offering a blue heart to dad while blowing kisses for the camera.

TMDILH daughter in amazing branch structure found at the beach.

@TMDILH daughter in amazing branch struchture find at the Toronto beach.

TMDILH daughter with pink skull bank Christmas present

@TMDILH daughter with the only thing she wanted for Christmas, her pink skull piggy bank.

TMDILH dad catching daughter at birth with doula taking picture at my request.

This was loud until @TMDILH daughter opened her eyes and upon seeing her dad holding her stopped crying and turned a normal colour.

TMDILH daughter and dad random winter selfie

@TMDILH dad and daughter random winter selfie having fun together.

TMDILH dad and daughter restaurant pic of dad being silly and adoring daughter loving him for it.

@TMDILH dad and the daughter that thinks I can do no wrong and loves me for being me, and the complete opposite of her mother.

TMDILH daughter with pet rat and freeky-eyed dog that's also a pet.

@TMDILH daughter with pet rat and freeky eyed dog, also a pet.

TMDILH daughter hugs her grandma, my mother.

@TMDILH daughter hugs grandma, my mother and by this point they had gone through a lot together..

TMDILH family trip from Los Angeles to Canada stop at natural hot springs.

@TMDILH family swim at natural hot springs swimming hole in our travels from Los Angeles to Canada.

TMDILH daughter in face paint with mother in stern face in Los Angeles home bathroom.

@TMDILH daughter in face paint with mother in stern face in Los Angeles home bathroom.

TMDILH daughter's uncle Warren at house warming party 2003

@TMDILH daughter's uncle Warren at matrimonial house warming.

TMDILH family pose on matrimonial home front porch

@TMDILH family pose incuding my mother, my younger sister, her boyfriend and his massive dog.

Dolores Alice Dukes host of @TMDILH and extreme parental alienation who guilty of Contempt of Court

Dolores Alice Dukes host of @TMDILH on #ExtremeParentalAlienation guilty of Contempt of Court.

TMDILH daughter playing with green paint on her hands and face with proud dad

@TMDILH daughter playing with green paint on her hands and face with proud dad.

TMDILH daughter and dad thumbwrestling at a restaurant

@TMDILH dad and daughter thumbwrestling which was one of our favourite things waiting for food.

TMDILH Los Angeles home in the hills with dining room outside with an amaxing view of the hills and mountains, a million dollar view.

@TMDILH Los Angeles home's dining room with the million dollar view which doubled as a play room for our daughter.

TMDILH daughter waiting for me to join her skating at our favourite pond.

@TMDILH daughter waiting for me to join her at our favourite outdoor place to skate.

TMDILH daughter and dad learning to fly a kite together on Toronto beach.

@TMDILH daughter and dad learning to do kite flying together on Toronto beach.

TMDILH daughter with her aunt Crystal, ther mother's older sister, also alienated from seeing my daughter.

@TMDILH daughter and her aunt Crystal, who is the mother's older sister, in matrimonial home.

TMDILH daughter and grandma enjoy a selfie in the truck together.

@TMDILH daughter and her grandma enjoy a truck selfie together.

TMDILH last autumn together 2010 Toronto beaches boardwalk.

@TMDILH dad and daughter at the Toronto beaches boardwalk our last autumn together.

TMDILH daughter upclose fingers finger pointing towards camera.

@TMDILH daugher upclose with fingers pointing at dad with camera in matrimonial home 2004.

TMDILH mother and younger sister with first visit from Los Angeles girl

@TMDILH my mother and younger sister first visit with daughter and her whoopie cushion in Canada.

TMDILH daughter and grandmother Gogo, the mother's mother completely alienated as well

@TMDILH daughter with grandmother Gogo, the mother's mother, who was devastated the mother alienated her which possibly the caused her heart attack.

TMDILH daughter at Canada's Wonderland with her father

@TMDILH daughter first time at Canada's Wonderland with her father and she was finally tall enough to ride with me.

TMDILH daughter at icey beach with dad

@TMDILH daughter at icey beach with dad on one of our many adventures.

TMDILH daughter posing on railway tracks

@TMDILH daugher pose on railway tracks like any good parent allows. lol.

TMDILH dad with singing copilot selfie in truck

@TMDILH dad with singing copilot selfie in truck, we had driving songs we'd almost always sing together.

TMDILH daughter and dad as zombies with friends making a movie.

Zombie TMDILH dad, daughter and frends assisting a friend making a movie. You don't see zombie kids enough.

TMDILH daughter at local fair excited about an amazing candy apple wearing her dad's hat.

@TMDILH daughter with dad and friends while she enjoys candy apple at local fair wearing my hat.

TMDILH daughter and dad after her dance class scheduled during my Child Access schedule.

@TMDILH daughter and dad after her dance class that the mother scheduled during my Child Access.

TMDILH dad hugging daughter at river with my daughter's size obvious she gets no exercise while at her mother's house.

@TMDILH daughter and dad hug at river with my daughter's size an obvious sign she gets no exercise while with her mother.

TMDILH daughter biking the Toronto beaches with her father on another advernture.

@TMDILH daughter biking with her father at Toronto beach bike path on yet another adventure.

TMDILH daughter with dad and ducks by the frozen river on another adventure.

@TMDILH daughter with dad and the ducks by the frozen river on our weekend adventures.

TMDILH daughter and dad nature hike in good weather although we never enjoyed summers together.

@TMDILH dad and daughter nature hike in the good weather, we NEVER got summers together, EVER!

TMDILH daughter at Kensington Market shop window showing disgust for the display.

@TMDILH daughter with dad in our travels looking into a Kensington Market shop in Toronto.

TMDILH daughter and dad at friend's annual Boxing Day Skare, the only one I was able to take her to.

@TMDILH daughter with dad during some skating lessons at friends Annual Boxing Day Skate. The only year I could take her.

TMDILH Los Angeles daughter enjoys winter with dad

@TMDILH Los Angeles born daughter fortunately loves getting outside in the winter because I do too.

TMDILH dad and daughter at beach on stormy day

@TMDILH dad and daughter brave a stormy day at the beach together, luckily my kid is adventurous like me.

TMDILH daughter in halloween makeup for Halloween

@TMDILH daughter in halloween makeup at decorated house on my first and only Halloween, notified the day before.

TMDILH daughter and dad at favourite spot: Cedar Park Outdoor WaterPark and Campground,

@TMDILH daughter and dad's favourite outdoor water park is the amazing Cedar Park were kids can be kids and so can parents.

TMDILH daughter and dad at Ringette

@TMDILH daughter and dad at my daughter's Ringette which was scheduled during my Child Access.

TMDILH daughter and girlfriend enjoying Toronto's Festival of Lights

@MTDILH daughter and girlfriend enjoying Toronto's Festival Of Lights at City Hall.

TMDILH daughter with boa constrictor at ROM

@TMDILH daughter on an adventure with dad to The ROM excited to learn about the boa constrictor.

TMDILH los angeles girl eating snow 2004

@TMDILH Los Angeles 4 year old daughter first snow eating at matrimonial home upon moving to Canada.

TMDILH daughter and dad cuddles comes easy when we really miss each other

@TMDILH dad and daughter cuddles are easy when we both miss each other.

TMDILH daughter's and girlfriend climbing trees together on a Toronto adventure.

@TMDILH daughter and girlfriend climbing trees together on Toronto adventure.

TMDILH daughter hugging dad on train going home after amazing weekend together.

@TMDILH dad and daugther hug on train taking her back home after amazing weekend together.

TMDILH daughter on Toronto beach rocks posing with her sunglassess

@TMDILH girlfriend and daughter on Toronto beach rocks with sunglassess.

TMDILH dad getting daughter the exact book she wanted for Christmas excited face.

@TMDILH dad getting daughter the exact book she wanted for Christmas and her excitement.

TMDILH dad and daughter enjoying last time together.

@TMDILH 10 year old daughter and dad last time together.

TMDILH daughter's moo hat Christmas present in her last time with her father.

@TMDILH daughter's moo hat one of her many Christmas presents our last Christmas together.

TMDILH daughter wearing my pullover walking the beaches with dad one foggy night.

@TMDILH with daughter wearing my pullover on a foggy beach walk at night.

TMDILH daughter's secret smiling selfie left on dad's camera for Christmas.

@TMDILH daughter secret smiling selfie left on my camera from my daughter my last Christmas with her.

TMDILH daughter and dad at friend's family event having a blast.

@TMDILH daughter and dad's girlfriend playing with tinsel decorating the tree last Christmas together.

TMDILH daughter giving dad sweet hug with smile

@TMDILH daughter sweet hug for her father with a smile.

TMDILH daughter with dad's girlfriend leasrning something new.

@TMDILH daughter with dad's girlfriend learning something new.

TMDILH daughter checking out Christmas windown display at Yonge and Queen St.

@TMDILH daughter checking out Christmas window display at Yonge and Queen St Toronto.

TMDILH daughter on Toronto beach rocks with her sunglasses

@TMDILH daughter on Toronto beach rocks with her sunglasses.

TMDILH daughter playground at night fun

@TMDILH daughter playground at night fun.

TMDILH daughter suiting up for Ringette practice with dad helping.

@TMDILH daughter suiting up for Ringette practive with dad helping..

TMDILH daughter truck selfie with friend on way to ROM.

@TMDILH daughter selfie with friend on way to ROM with dad and friend..

TMDILH daughter after over one year of alienation by mother making strangers of family.

@TMDILH daughter after over a year of alienation by mother making strangers out of family.

TMDILH daughter and dad first time at Canada's Wonderland what dad was waiting for.

@TMDILH daughter with dad and first time at Canada's Wonderland, a moment I was waiting for.

TMDILH dad brushing daughter's hair to mock terror.

@TMDILH dad brushing daughter's hair to mock terror, in fact, I was the best at detangling her hair she said.

TMDILH daughter and dad both in black for last Christmas together.

@TMDILH dad and daughter both in black for our last time together at Christmas.

TMDILH daughter wearing dads scarf at hockey game with dad.

@TMDILH daughter wearing dads scarf with dad watching Junior A hockey game and she loved it.

TMDILH daughter stormy beach smile together with dad.

@TMDILH daughter at stormy beach with smile for dad and enjoying our company together wherever.

TMDILH daughter and new boyish haircut at cafe for breakfast together..

@TMDILH daughter and new boyish hair cut with dad at outside cafe enjoying breakfast together.

TMDILH daughter with computer access at dads but not at her own home.

@TMDILH daughter with access to a computer while at dads but not at her own home.

TMDILH daughter enjoying ice cream with dad on Toronto boardwalk wearing my hat..

@TMDILH daughter wearing my hat enjoying ice cream with dad on the Toronto beach boardwalk.

TMDILH daughter playing with green paint on her hands and face with proud dad

@TMDILH daughter giving dad a big hug after amazing weekend together which were always the highlight of my life.

Parents Need To Know This

Family Court Ruins Everything

April 2005
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Parental Alienation Start Date

@TMDILH Little Icon Welcome. My name is @TMDILH on social media, to protect my daughter and my identity. This website is in dedication to my alienated daughter who has been prohibited any and all communication with her father, family and friends since Dec. 26, 2010 by her mother Dolores Alice Dukes, @TMDILH's ex-wife.

Our daughter was stolen away by her mother which makes her guilty of Concept of Court and also alienated are the mother's own family, my family, all extended family, and and all reletives, and and all friends, neighbours, etc who only had to access to our daughter through me. This all started on the day my wife of 20 years separated from me April 18 2005 taking our daughter with her.

This is not the most comfortable topic to discuss and generates many emotions since it involves children, so I built this website out of love not hate. I focus on my daughter and her best interest. To counter the rage and anger associated with parental alienation, divorce and The Family Courts, I offer a solution in #AbolishFamilyCourt which has evolved from enduring over 7 years of increasingly horrific things done by the mother because she can, and it simply is NOT in the best interest of the children.

I am not happy and I don't think our relationship is healthy, an example must be made for Child and I'm concerned she is not getting a good one.

The mother and my wife Dolores Alice Dukes April 18 2005

The Day I Started To Lose My Only Child

The mother and my ex-wife and partner of 20 years is NOW so cold-hearted and incredibly devious for vengeance, retaliation and spite that she can teach a Master Class on Parental Alienation because this has been going on for over 14 years now and is unanimously critisized by everyone involved as being NOT in the best interest of the child. She didn't start out that way, she learnt it from The Family Court System, the enabler of Parental Alienation, and I prove it indisputably with evidence diligently compiled from years worth of being denied the right to parent my child.

My Daugther Needs Me And This Website

It's already been proven this website has been seen by my daughter and has been seen by thousands with greater worldwide exposure with my Facebook and Twitter accounts and the response is overwhelming positive and supportive. Building this website dedicated to my daughter, with the proof in it's name, means my daughter will be proud to see it and any parent would relate to a father and daughter bond is undeniable in the picture slideshow. We serioiusly are best friends as well as an excellent father daughter team and have endured Parental Alieanation at the hands of the mother for years now.

The Mother Is Erasing Her Past Against Her Daughter's Best Interest

Essentially the mother wants to erase her past, taking our daughter with her against her will. This is an epic story of Extreme Parental Alienation in The Family Court System but there is so much more this website offers, check back for updates daily.

Recorded December 7th, 2007 when @TMDILH's 7 year old daughter secretly called her alienated father at great risk from her mother.
If I had a choice to be with you or mom I would definitely choose you.

@TMDILH daughter secret phone call to her alienated father Dec. 7, 2007

December 2010
Extreme Alienation
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The motivation behind building this website started with me left powerless to protect my daughter in The Family Courts thus me publicly showing the world what happened to my daughter and her entire family in Family Court.

But the original concept of @TMDILH has since grown to be much more as I've met so many wonderful people who are similarily victims of The Family Court System and are suffering Parental Alienation as well, so I've grown this website to be host to research material of just how horrific The Family Courts can be.

The Mother Is An Extreme Threat To Our Daughter's Life

Everyone closely related to this also believe my daughter is in great danger of her mother, but I personally believe the mother's insatiable desire to end her daughter's relationship with everyone tells me ther mother truly doesn't care about the child and thus capable of taking my daughter's life by murder/suicide. I have plenty of reasons to believe this but my greatest belief comes from a quote the mother said to our daughter Dec. 26, 2010 in giving her 10 year old child an ultimatum:

"have your father take you back home for noon tomorrow or you'll never see your father again"

Dolores Alice Dukes to her 10 year old daughter Dec. 25, 2010

I Never Saw Our Daughter Again

The mother wanted my holiday time of less than a day and a half with our daughter (less than an average weekend) cut down to 24 hours which devastated my daughter. She would've wanted an entire week. All of the chaos with this ultimatum was deliberately executed by the mother without notice, without reason and against the Court Order that she wrote and was used as the catalyst for the mother to enforce Extreme Parental Alienation, which makes the mother again guilty of Contempt of Court.

The "Never" Was Meant To Be Understood As Alive Or Dead

I never saw or heard from my daughter again. No one has. The real Chistmas present Dolores Alice Dukes gave her child and all of us that 2010 Christmas holiday was and still is the wickedness that never stops giving.

I pursued attempting to stay in my daughter's life, but not at the sake of risking her life so I eventually was forced to give up trying. It was the lesser of two evils, the other option was fight the mother in Family Court again, and that didn't work out very well costing me many years and tens of thousands of dollars. I walked away because it was my only real option the mother gave me that protects my child, however I'm positive the mother pointed out how I was NOT in my daughter's life to punctuate the intended result of shaming, bullying, belittling and controlling me, none of which I've evenr been considered guilty of.

If this IS Postpartum, it's endurance is impressive. My wife of 20 years changed when our daughter was born. It was a complete 180 degree shift, everyone who knew saw it as the mother tried to present well but often failed miserably. Close family and friends heard me reaching out for advice for a year and half after the birth... with my biggest concern being no intimacy. None. The night before the birth, we went out to a restaurant and had intimacy which has always been very strong in our partnership. My beautiful wife was very pregnant in our sweet little house and we were both so incredibly happy. I have proof.

It is our position that there are no protection concerns with respect to Michael Dad continuing his access to his daughter Child and that it will only further be a detriment to her if she is continued to be separated from her father.

Darlene Carlson CAS Family Services Worker

CAS Report Defending @TMDILH Against Some Very Serious False Allegations And Offering An Endorsement For My Parenting

It was approximatey 36 hours after the birth of our first and only child that my best friend and wife of 2 decades changed her opinion of me and her view of the world. She hated me and couldn't trust me any more. We did not get along at all, contrary to the night before the birth when we had a romantic dinner together, and all our history together seemed to turn to regret. All of this was immediate and absolutely NONE of this was obvious to the mother. To her, this was her now and as if our past, since high-school, had never existed. She hated me and had no interactions with my friends. She hated her family which absolutely devasted them because they adored her.

Essentially, the person I knew and shared my life with for 2 decades now hated this and that, and I wouldn't have lived with anyone like that EVER. She was very unhappy with nothing seeming to make her happy. Motherhood got even more sour for my wife when our daughter was obviously a daddys girl. When my daughter's first word was dad, something snapped in the mother with her lack of caring now toxic. She now blamed everyone for her unhappiness.

I Believe The Mother Secretly Resented My Father/Daughter Bond

Ultimately, I believe my father/daughter bond ended our marriage AND it enraged the mother SO much to the point of Extreme Parental Alienation and this video did it. The obvious great time my daughter is having, coupled with evidence of a very healthy father/daughter relation and further threatening to the mother is the awesome relationship our daughter has with my new girlfriend, was more than enough of a trigger for the mother and it was merely weeks after this video went public that our daughter was taken away from her father, family and friends.

This was fun to do. My daughter and my girlfriend bonded over their appreciation for the Lord Of The Rings Trilogy that when I jokingly suggested we make a parody video, my daughter obsessed on the idea. We only see each other every other weekend with no communication allowed by the mother but after the 3rd weekend, we finally produced this video of scenes my daughter wrote and co-ordinated with my girlfriend. It was great to see them get along so well, but I'm positive it infuriated the mother enough to commit Contempt of Court and Extreme Parental Alienation soon after this went public.

In 2005, when my wife left me, she was convinved I was her unhappiness, but the mother is no more happy today with proof of her being even more unstable, unpredictable and more of a threat to our daughter and herself..

I Believe The "Never" Meant Dead Or Alive

Since you don't know me, how can you believe a word of this? Because I have years and years of proof, I've kept every scrap of evidence from day one of my separation April 18 2005, displaying it for all the world to see. I have CAS records, Office of the Children's Lawyer Records, School Board Superintendent Interviews, Police Reports, Voice Recordings, hand written documents, all Family Court documents, all Family Court Lawyer documents on both sides, sworn affidavits from family members, even our Real Estate agent had to get involved.

To say this is a nightmare doesn't seem to do it proper justice, and it's in it's 14th year. It's like cancer, everything slowly eroding the core values of life leaving you with nothing but pictures, memories, thoughts of what could have been and what did I do wrong?

There are many victims of The Family Court System and they'll recognize those symptoms. We live in a no-man's land where very few survive and if we do, we're beaten and damaged beyond all recognition. I'm merely a sliver of my former self. I've lost so many friends, family members, relatives and others because of what I've been going through. I'm naturally a proud person and happy person and have achieved a lot in life, but this is my proudest moment, surviving what I've gone through and continue to endure.

My Family Law case number is 835-05 and is available for the public to see unedited, I protect my daughter's name and my name because it's the same as my daugter's. It's not against any law for me to publish the truth, thus this website exists.

Without the mother being as dangerous as she has been, there'd be no need for any of this. There is no slander or need for exageration, in fact, I keep most of my comments out to allow for the overwhelming amount of evidence, literally gigabites of it so too much for free website like Wordpress or Wix. This is hosted on my own personal VPS at an expense because of just how large the website is. Check the Timeline page for a complete history of my divorce as an amazing resource all about the perils of The Family Court System.

On Jan. 8, 2018 My Daughter Secretly Wrote To Me

After 8 Years My Daughter Gets Brave Enough To Contact Her Alienated Dad

This #SheKnowYouDo email was HUGE but I now feared for my daughter's life more than ever.

Jan. 2018
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17 Year Old Alienated Daughter's Secret Email To @TMDILH

#SheKnowsYouDo is the title of my now 17 and a half year old daughter secretly writing to me (under an alias) and answering my website name Tell My Daughter I Love Her: She Knows You Do. P.S. This was sent to me on my ex-wife's 50th birthday which is VERY significant.

My alienated daughter that hasn't been allowed to talk to me since she was 10 writes that she worked up the courage to write me after finding the website, but also goes on to describe her inprisonment. and the dreaded fear of getting caught writing to me that she mentions 3 times, starting and ending the email adding it's significance. As a parent who knows the environment the mother has created for her imprisoned almost adult child, I was incredibly concerned of the Munchausen By Proxy conditions my daughter described, amongst other disturbing elements like the fact she wrote to me in language she would've used at the age of 10.

This could very well be the worst decision of my life, but I guess for all your effort you deserve to know your daughter knows you love her.

@TMDIH daughter's #SheKnowsYouDo secret email her alienated father Jan. 08 2018

The "worst decision of my life" my daughter speaks of is her mother finding out she contacted her father. It could be punishable by death.

The mother Dolores Alice Dukes is clearly guilty of Contempt of Court but MUST be suffering some deep depression to not care about her own child, and thus is a very serious threat to my daughter's life. This is over 13 years of Parental Alienation by the mother, since April 18, 2005. The Police, CAS, The Office of the Children's Lawyer, The School Board and everyone associated with my situation know that I feel this.

I'm not the only one who feels my daugther's life is in danger, the daughter's mother has disowned her entire family for over a decade now and they all believe the worst as well.

I found the website a year ago, I missed the rest of the school year because I couldn't leave the house. I can't prove anything I know about my life is true.

@TMDIH #SheKnowsYouDo daughter's secret email to her alienated father Jan. 08 2018

The "missed the rest of the school year" means the mother kept her locked in her apartment, not attending school, no social media for a 17 year old with no contact or mention of her father in 7 and a half years.

With absolutely no contact allowed, by Police Enforcement Order granted to the mother in Family Court, I have no way of knowing if my daughter is alive and because the massive authority granted to the mother by The Family Courts is SO omnipotent, my daughter can't contact her father, family or friends. My daughter is prohibited or greatly monitored for her internet access out of the mother's paranoia of our daughter communicating to the outside world, so NO active social media at 18!.

Possibly, were (sic) both terrible people who blame others for our own faults. Or you're the only person who really understands how much she can hurt.

@TMDIH #SheKnowsYouDo daughter's secret email to her alienated father Jan. 08 2018

The "how much she can hurt" is referring to her mother and her power of inflicting vicious vengeance. The mother Dolores Alice Dukes has inflicted more damage on her child than anyone.

A Message To My Daughter From @TMDILH

If my daughter ever reads this website again, call me immediately your life is in danger. Call 911 immediately and tell them you're afraid of your mother and they will put a Restraining Order against her to protect you. You can live with me, your Aunt Crystal or Uncle Warren, but you wouldn't want that. lol. We're here for you ANY time and your fears are real about your mother.

A Message To My Daughter's Kidnapper Dolores Alice Dukes: I Forgive You

Let's work together towards co-parenting going forward and I'm willing to forgive you for all the harm you deliberately inflicted on everyone, namely our child.

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