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Each page has it's own subcatagories and is broken down in laymen speak so you do not have to be a lawyer to make sense of it. There are so many facets to my Parental Alienation with so many people, organizations and laws involved, making sense of this might be a challenge, but so is The Family Court System.

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The Mother's Character And Horrific Parenting

Dolores Alice Dukes#the-mother-dolores-alice-dukes-parental-alienation-since-boxing-day-2011

Parental Alienation And In Contempt Of Family Court Since Dec. 26, 2011 Dolores Alice Dukes

It's quite easy to conclude, as this website proves, the mother did not and does not have the best interest of her child, from the beginning. I personally gave the mother plenty of freedom to do the right thing, yet at EVERY opportunity she had, she choose to do what was in HER best interest, OVER the child's personal wishes, health and well-being.

Parental Alienation Parent Alice Dukes
Dolly Dukes aka Alice Dukes Parental Alienation Of Daughter Since Dec. 26 1011

Mandatory Mediation would NEVER have allowed any of it.

The mother wasn't always like this. We'd started dating out of high-school and been together for 17 years before our daughter was born. Up until the very night of the birth of our child, we were that dreamy idyllic young couple wanting to start a family. We had the house, steady incomes, a great neighbourhood to raise a chld in Los Angeles and an amazing future ahead of us. In approximagely 36 hours after the birth, the mother would have a change of heart and begin doubting everything she ever knew about me, life and our child. Suddenly, everything was different. Post-partum? Sure, until it never ends, then it's just who you are after that.

This is who the mother is now.

The mother could call me to today and apologize and I would forgive her, but I KNOW she won't. Her family would probably, over time, forgive her but again I KNOW the mother has no remorse, no regret and no problem continuing the complete alienation of my daughter from father, family and friends.

I've never been one to tell my wife what to do. I certainly had NO SAY in my divorce so this is EXACTLY what the mother believes is what she should do, so she should have no problem with me displaying exactly what she's done for the whole world to see.

This page could have so much evidence included to showcase Dolores Alice Dukes in her divorce with @TMDILH so hopefully it will be updated soon.


Dolores Alice Dukes Parental Alienation Start Date

April 18, 2005 Letter#the-mother-dolores-alice-dukes-not-happy-letter-she-left-me-on-april-18-2005

Dolly Dukes

The Letter That Started My Family Court Nightmare With The Mother Dolores Alice Dukes

Not Happy Letter
The Mother's Not Happy Letter Left For Me On April 18, 2005

This hand-written letter was left for me by the mother in our matrimonial house when I came home from work that night. Please note the lack of fear, no idication of violence or hatred towards me. Also noteworthy is no indication of me being a bad parent, only an indication the environment she decribes in being yelled at and treated with disrespect was not good for child, and I agree, which is why I suggested Marriage Councelling.

" example must be made for CHILD and I'm concerned she is not getting a good one."

Quote from the mother in her own handwriting

The being yelled at and disrespect was from the both of us, by the way. It often happens when one parent isn't happy, and it was a known fact that Dolly wasn't happy any more. I still tried to help and encouraged her to take action to change it by suggesting she join a theatre group, which she did and Marriage Counselling, which she didn't want to do..

Since she blamed her leaving me on our child needing a good example, was the mother allowing her new boyfriend Marty to start hitting our daughter allowing her new boyfriend to hit our daughter, no less than 3 months later, part of that good example?

"Child is safe and I'm not telling her bad things aboute her dad."

Quote from the letter the mother left for me April 18, 2005

This sentance is important because besides telling the daughter bad things, denying the daughter access and communication to the father for weeks after this letter does not imply bad things? Putting a Restraining Order on me in our very first Court Order is for bad people, right? What child WOULDN'T consider this something bad about their parent? It did only take until the unbelievable and incredibly dangerous Boxing Day 05 Incident to truly prove the mother devolving and making our divorce about revenge, instead of what's best for our child. If the mother's letter from April 18 was in good intent as she wants me to believe, there was NOTHING that was any good for our child about that incident other than truly taughting me who and what I was up against in my divorce just to remain a parent to our child..

I knew the mother was not happy as it was obvious to everyone, including family and friends. In Feb. of that year, I suggested she join a local theatre group, and she did. The play was a success and ran to sold out crowds the entire week. That weekend she was very happy, but the play was done. The mother left me the next Monday.


The Mother Dolores Alice Dukes Posted A Facebook Hate Page

Facebook Hate Page#dolores-alice-dukes-facebook-hate-page-calling-me-a-deadbeat-dad

Using My Full Real Name And Sending It To All My Social Media Contacts

Facebook Hate Page
The Mother's Facebook Hate Page Dedicated To Me

The mother made a very revenge-filled facebook account with my full legal name and the words deadbeatdad and not only set up to go public but notified all my friends on facebookk AND crossed over to my LinkedIn account and posted it to everyone there as well, to clarify her point.

This was an eye-opener for a lot of people who had only heard of my horrific divorce ordeal but never actually seen it. The mother very covert at first, but eventually learned to pride herself on just how brazen she could be. This was helpful to me, as it proved better than I could describe exactly the person I was dealing with.

All my friends came to my support and admonished the mother for this, but she did not relent and kept replying, claiming no guilt and believing whole heartedly in her right to do this, so I kept it up. Many of my family and friends on Facebook suggested she be charged, and for it to be immediately taken down, however, I felt the mother should be able to express herself freely and it was beautiful evidence for me. Everyone agreed on that.

"To neglect a child is wrong regardless of any frustration with the legal system or ones ex."

Quote from the mother's Facebook Hate Page made for me

Of course, this quote was only supposed to apply to me.


The Mother Dolores Alice Dukes Cancelled My Vehicle Insurance

Mother Cancelled Insurance#the-mother-dolores-alice-dukes-cancelled-my-vehicle-insurance

Pembridge Insurance

During My Access Weekend Then Called The Police On Me

Insurance letter
The Mother Cancelled My Vehicle Insurance

Cancelled Insurance Policy The mother, without my knowledge, cancelled my truck's insurance policy, on the weekend I have my access. I believe she may have tried to call the police and have me stopped as well, although I found out in time for that to not happen.

This was intentional, and not an accident. I did something the mother did not like for our daughter's birthday, so this was her retaliation. To be precise, the cancellation happened soon after my daughter's birthday but on my access weekend. I was the policy holder and Dolly was added to my policy, which made it odd that Dolly could even cancel my insurance..

"Effective June 9/05 delete 1992 Toyota as per insured request."

Quote from Vehicle Insurance Cancellation letter

Funny enough, the Insurance Company aplogized and reistated my policy immediately telling me they were going to change their policy to not allow this to happen again, YET asked me if I wanted to cancel the mother off the insurance policy which is exactly what happened to me that they said they were going to change.

I didn't cancel my ex-wife's car insurance, as I believed she might still need it and went to proper length to notify the mother went the insurance was up for renewal, and that she was going to be without car insurance however, Dolores Alice Dukes' only reply was to have her beat up car towed to me.


The Mother Dolores Alice Dukes Showing Her True Sense Of Class

Mother Changing Daughter's Clothing#the-mother-dolores-alice-dukes-dressing-our-child-badly-on-fathers-weekend-access

Anything Bought By The Father Or Family Never To Be Seen Again

The mother throughout our separation and divorce would always try to appear the obvious better parent, like it was a competition or the similarly adversarial environment of The Family Courts. She would often lie to almost everyone she met about me. Almost everyone one of the staff of EVERY school my daughter attended was well aware of the mother, as she would assert her influence on everyone immediately.

"Ms. Mom admitted that she will go to child's school and require her to change her clothes near the end of the day before she sees her father."

Quote from the OCL Report page 14

I recall one winter weekend access with my daughter that I was excited about, because we'd planned for us to go toboganning. The previous access weekend I bought her a new snowsuit, hat, gloves and boots so she was ready. When I got to the school, my daughter was dressed only in a t-shirt, shorts and shoes, not anywhere near the clothing for winter. I ended up having to go through the Lost and Found grabbing her anything just to get out of the building. It was shameful of any parent to do that for any reason.

"Upon seeing Child, I was shocked at the state of the clothes and how they didn't fit her. I found out this was a regular thing where Dolores would deliver her in the worst clothes to see her Dad."

Quote from the mother's sister Crystal's affidavit


Dolores Alice Dukes Sent Me Her Trashed Car With Dog Poo In It

Mother's Trashed Car#the-mother-dolores-alice-dukes-sent-me-her-car

Dolly Dukes

The Mother Used The Last Free CAA Tow On Our Membership To Send It To Me

My Lawyer's letter
My Lawyer Notifying The Mother Of Her Insurance Expiration
My Efforts Vs. The Mother's
Dolores Alice Dukes sent me her trashed car

There's a story behind this that reflects quite well on mine and the mother's character. It's starts with the separation itself, and how to manage the collateral assets such as her car.

When the separation was official, and there was doubt in the mother's actions whether she really wanted to separate, we both had vehicles that were paid for, but insured in my name, under my insurance policy, the same one she tried to cancel me off of. When my lawyer started planning to divide the assets, he sent a letter to the mother's lawyer wanting to know what to do about the insurance policy. The mother obviously would have to get her own. When the mother refused to respond on this topic, my lawyer then asked me whether I was going to cancel her off my policy. I said no, I would keep it going just in case, the same with my CAA coverage.

Character traits of her vs. me

Months past and still no answer on the insurance until it came time to renew it, which I did without the mother. That's when the mother had the car towed to me, using up the last CAA free tow on her membership. It also answered whether she still wanted insurance or not.

Noteworthy was the things I found in the car. Dried up dog poo, garbage, fast-food containers (which I never fed our daughter) and my daugher's homework which had references to me, her father and how she loved me.

Also confirmed were the extra efforts so that the car was officially trashed, and not a gift: sugar in the gas tank, missing random pieces of the engine, bashed out headlights, damaged passenger door, damaged sunroof so the rain would get in, and missing the stock radio that will not work in any other car and has no value removed.

Of course, all this was accomplished with her accomplice and soon to be fiance Marty Weeks.


Family And Friends Mean Nothing To Dolores Alice Dukes

Mother Disowned Her Own Family#the-mother-dolores-alice-dukes-disowned-her-own-family-and-friends

The Mother Never Showed Signs Of Remorse Or Regret Ever

Gogo Affidavit
The Mother's Own Mother Gogo's Sworn Affidavit Against Her Daughter
Grandma and Grand Daughter Quality Time
Grandma And Grand-Daughter Quality Time That Dolores Alice Dukes Wouldn't Allow
This is Dolores Alice Dukes' mother Gogo and my daughter, the relationship my daughter was not allowed by the mother.

The mother Dolores Alice Dukes has been trying to erase her past since our separation April 18, 2005. I've been erased of course, but so have her own family, including her own mother Margarie, or as everyone knew her as Gogo, the nickname my daughter gave to her and it stuck.

Gogo had amazing energy and was the matriarch of the family, even with her husband a Sargeant of the York Region Police. Gogo and I got along instantly and remained great friends to only become better friends after the divorce. Now this might seem a bit odd for a mother-in-law relationship, but it definitely was good to have throughout the divorce.

"None of the family had any contact with Dolores or CHILD for almost a year. Crystal, my daughter, called Mike's mom to ask Mike to see CHILD. And he did."

Quote from Dolly's mom Gogo's affidavit

Gogo was heartbroken and devastated when the mother essentially just stopped all communication with her entire family. Since our separation, I respected Gogo and Dolly's family and figured they wouldn't want anything more to do with me. But things changed drastically.

"Ms. Mom explained that she has limited contact with her siblings and nieces, partly due to disagreements over child rearing practices and the sale of the family cottage."

Quote from OCL Report interview with the mother Dolly

I frankly didn't know Dolores Alice Dukes alienated her entire family and to do it like she did, so harsh and utterly heartless. So, while I was still getting access to my daughter, I allowed Gogo and Dolores Alice Dukes' entire family access to my daugther. Dolly didn't. And when that happened, I realized that my divorce to Alice Dukes RMT was no longer just MY problem, the mother of my child hurt a LOT of people. But the circumstances unfolding as they did, it couldn't have proved exactly who I was any better nor could it prove exactly who the mother had become any better.

Mandatory Mediation makes so much sense compared to The Family Courts, so why are we still using The Family Court System?

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