Who Displays Their Nasty Divorce In A Website?
No good parent should ever have to ask a Judge for permission to parent, that's just wrong and that's why I built this website.
My Family Court Nightmare Ending In Complete Parental Alienation
Hello, and welcome to the @TMDILH page, the profile name I use when promoting this website on social media. TMDILH is an acronym for the full title of TellMyDaughterILoveHer.com, the website I founded, built and host completely of my own expense. I became a Web Developer at the age of 50 just to do this, and I built this website on my own VPS to host the massive amount of evidence I've compiled as a parent in Family Court.
My situation is unique, as all are in divorce or separation, but in my case, I did absolutely nothing wrong and can prove it. I did absolutely nothing to deserve what has been done to me by the mother. In fact, my family doesn't deserve this, nor does the mother's own family, who haven't been in contact with my daughter for a lot longer. Yes, the mother alienated her entire own family and friends from seeing her daughter. Cut and dry, this is a black and white, right vs. wrong custody case. I still do have acccess custody by law, but the mother just doesn't care. The mother, Alice Dukes an RMT at Pickering Wellness Center, is in the belief that she has done and continues to do no wrong, and that's what is SO unique and precedent setting about my case, it's unbelievable.
What I've endured just to remain a parent to my only child in The Family Court System is almost unbelieveable, therefore I felt it needed to be witnessed to fully be believed. The Evidence Page hosts all my proof since the start of my separation April 18,2004, leading to today with absolutely no one having any contact with my daughter since Dec. 26, 2011. Complete alienation from anyone and everyone, not just me.
I have nothing to hide, am a proud parent and a decent karma loving person. I believe this is something I must do.
TellMyDaughterILoveHer.com advocates we abolish The Family Court System and replace it with Mandatory Mediation and believes it offer the
civilized divorce. After having my child stolen from me by her mother through The Family Courts,I learned for eight years just archaic our Family Court System is. And I'm here to tell you The Family Court System does NOT work. In fact, The Family Court System and the toxic adversarial nature it creates is victimizing the children of separation or divorce with the proof of this in my situation hosted on the Evidence page of this website.
I would have NEVER lost my daughter if Mandatory Mediation were mandated by law.
Can A Bad Parent's Actions Warrant A Precedent Setting Case.
I want this website to be an inspiration to what one parent endured for his child, and hopefully inspire the civilized divorce, where children actually are considered and coparenting is achievable in the midst of divorce. As we all know, equality, justice and civility are not available in The Family Court System and that is simply the WORST for the children. This website aims to be a resource and educational tool for dialogue and discussion with regards to changing the laws around divorce, and to hopefully abolish The Family Court System entirely.
The simple truth is, IF the mother in my divorce weren't as hellish as she was, I would NOT have a website nor would I advocate for this cause, but my life would be incredibly different, happy and I'd be Co-Parenting our child. But, since the mother, throughout our divorce, displayed the most deplorable behaviour of any parent, it might just be enough to get people to pay attention.
I believe in fate. For whatever reason, my wife and partner of 20 years decides to go her own way. The divorce I could handle, because no one wants to force anyone else to live with them. Every documented piece of evidence on this website proves that I was always ok with the divorce and more than giving throughout the entire proceedings. Every time the mother lashed out at me with lies, deceit and even more, I didn't retaliate. I never would. I knew that's what the mother wanted, and I wasn't interested in a fight. So that's when the mother dealt out even more, and got nastier. More I didn't fight, the more she did. I wanted to mediate. I wanted what was best for our daughter. I was willing to compromise and willing to do anything I could to accomodate seeing our daughter and it's proven throughout with every document and action associated with my divorce. That's what makes my particular divorce so newsworthy, it's completely black and white. Everyone associated with my divorce supports me as the best parent EXCEPT The Family Court System.
If This Can Happen To Me, No Doubt It Can Happen To You
In my experienced opinion, having been through 8 years in The Family Courts, I truly believe making mediation mandatory is the civilized divorce and the only way to achieve what is really in the best interest of our children, parents, society and so much more. The Family Court System is a disgrace to society, parents and children. If you fundamentally believe that every child is entitled to both parents, then you might believe in Abolishing The Family Court System too. Please share if you care.